Sunday, September 10, 2006

Carol Bouchard -- Remembering Just One of the 2,996

As the size of a project grows, so grows the chance of becoming overwhelmed. In my church, which is Christian, we have this discussion all the time. Christians struggle to save all the souls of mankind. It is our calling. We are not to do it by force or intimidation, however. We are to do it with love and revelation.

We will never succeed to save the world. Nor can any one of us, or any one church, send missionaries to the entire world. So each person and group must pick our missions, be they foreign or domestic, and do them as well as we can. There comes a time when one has a lost soul in front of us asking for direction. We must not fail to try to reach that soul. Just that one. Among millions. Every lost soul is worth saving.

An analogous problem faced one whose idea was to honor those who died in the attacks on America on 9/11. How do you honor 2,996 people who lost their lives at the hands of evil men? The solution, thought up by
The 2,996 Project, was to let bloggers tackle the problem one person and one blogger at a time. So I accepted my duty to honor one soul that met its maker on 9/11. I honor Carol Bouchard.


This task is daunting. I am asked to honor a life I did not personally know. So I will do my best to give you the basics of this important person whose life is missed by many friends and family members.

Carol Bouchard was a passenger on American Airlines Flight 11 on 9/11/2001. She lived in Warwick, Rhode Island where she worked as an emergency room secretary at Kent Hospital. She had a sense of humor that many people commented about, and she was considered a friend who was always willing to lend a helping hand. She did her part to give back to her community. Among her efforts was her participation in a mentor program for local youth. She left behind her husband, Fred, pictured at right.

Many of the passengers that perished on the airplanes were professionals flying for business as they had done many times before. Not so with Carol. According to her friends and family, she was on her way to Las Vegas with a friend, Renee Newell, but she was reluctant to go because she was afraid to fly. She overcame that fear to join her friend on that trip.

I imagine Carol regularly overcame similar obstacles to achieve what needed to be done in her life. As I visited various tribute sites, I have learned that Carol was an etremely kind woman who passed only because she wanted to take some time to enjoy life with a friend. She left behind a family and co-workers and friends that loved her dearly.

Our world lost an important soul on 9/11 when Flight 11 was used as a weapon by evil men. Carol Bouchard's death is not one to be overlooked on a long list of names we don't know. Her's was a life to be cherished and missed, and those she touched before she left should remind us all of this special person we lost 5 years ago.

God bless Carol Bouchard and those who feel most personally that void from her loss. May her passing remind us all of the preciousness of the fragile life that God has given us, and may we all be inspired to live it fully for ourselves and others.


At 4:13 AM, Blogger camojack said...

"This task is daunting. I am asked to honor a life I did not personally know."

Me too. You done good...

At 5:51 AM, Blogger Cassandra said...

You did, KJ.

This was one of the hardest things I think I've done. I read two of these early yesterday morning (the Cotillion did a carnival) and then had to stop. I couldn't afford to spend the day all choked up at work - I had too much to do. So now I am catching up.

Numbers-wise, we just didn't lose that many people on 9/11. We are such a huge country. It's only when you start looking at them as people that you can't dismiss it easily anymore.

At 10:57 PM, Blogger Pile OnĀ® said...

I thought about doing this too.

I couldn't bring myself to do it. I just couldn't.

My hat is off to those who did. Nice job KJ and Cass.

At 5:27 PM, Blogger Cassandra said...

Well, as I said, it is not a thing I think I would have done, earlier. And I hated it while I was doing it.

There was a whole other piece I wanted to write about 9/11. I still can't do it. Writing has always been easy for me, but this - this is giving me trouble. I think I am just too close to it.

So I certainly understand how that feels, Pile.

At 10:19 PM, Anonymous Enlightenment said...

One thing that struck me as odd in the days after 9/11 was Bush saying "We will not tolerate conspiracy theories [regarding 9/11]". Sure enough there have been some wacky conspiracy theories surrounding the events of that day. The most far-fetched and patently ridiculous one that I've ever heard goes like this: Nineteen hijackers who claimed to be devout Muslims but yet were so un-Muslim as to be getting drunk all the time, doing cocaine and frequenting strip clubs decided to hijack four airliners and fly them into buildings in the northeastern U.S., the area of the country that is the most thick with fighter bases. After leaving a Koran on a barstool at a strip bar after getting shitfaced drunk on the night before, then writing a suicide note/inspirational letter that sounded like it was written by someone with next to no knowledge of Islam, they went to bed and got up the next morning hung over and carried out their devious plan. Nevermind the fact that of the four "pilots" among them there was not a one that could handle a Cessna or a Piper Cub let alone fly a jumbo jet, and the one assigned the most difficult task of all, Hani Hanjour, was so laughably incompetent that he was the worst fake "pilot" of the bunch. Nevermind the fact that they received very rudimentary flight training at Pensacola Naval Air Station, making them more likely to have been C.I.A. assets than Islamic fundamentalist terrorists. So on to the airports. These "hijackers" somehow managed to board all four airliners with their tickets, yet not even ONE got his name on any of the flight manifests. So they hijack all four airliners and at this time passengers on United 93 start making a bunch of cell phone calls from 35,000 feet in the air to tell people what was going on. Nevermind the fact that cell phones wouldn't work very well above 4,000 feet, and wouldn't work at ALL above 8,000 feet. But the conspiracy theorists won't let that fact get in the way of a good fantasy. That is one of the little things you "aren't supposed to think about". Nevermind that one of the callers called his mom and said his first and last name, more like he was reading from a list than calling his own mom. Anyway, when these airliners each deviated from their flight plan and didn't respond to ground control, NORAD would any other time have followed standard operating procedure (and did NOT have to be told by F.A.A. that there were hijackings because they were watching the same events unfold on their own radar) which means fighter jets would be scrambled from the nearest base where they were available on standby within a few minutes, just like every other time when airliners stray off course. But of course on 9/11 this didn't happen, not even close. Somehow these "hijackers" must have used magical powers to cause NORAD to stand down, as ridiculous as this sounds because total inaction from the most high-tech and professional Air Force in the world would be necessary to carry out their tasks. So on the most important day in its history the Air Force was totally worthless. Then they had to make one of the airliners look like a smaller plane, because unknown to them the Naudet brothers had a videocamera to capture the only known footage of the North Tower crash, and this footage shows something that is not at all like a jumbo jet, but didn't have to bother with the South Tower jet disguising itself because that was the one we were "supposed to see". Anyway, as for the Pentagon they had to have Hani Hanjour fly his airliner like it was a fighter plane, making a high G-force corkscrew turn that no real airliner can do, in making its descent to strike the Pentagon. But these "hijackers" wanted to make sure Rumsfeld survived so they went out of their way to hit the farthest point in the building from where Rumsfeld and the top brass are located. And this worked out rather well for the military personnel in the Pentagon, since the side that was hit was the part that was under renovation at the time with few military personnel present compared to construction workers. Still more fortuitous for the Pentagon, the side that was hit had just before 9/11 been structurally reinforced to prevent a large fire there from spreading elsewhere in the building. Awful nice of them to pick that part to hit, huh? Then the airliner vaporized itself into nothing but tiny unidentifiable pieces no bigger than a fist, unlike the crash of a real airliner when you will be able to see at least some identifiable parts, like crumpled wings, broken tail section etc. Why, Hani Hanjour the terrible pilot flew that airliner so good that even though he hit the Pentagon on the ground floor the engines didn't even drag the ground!! Imagine that!! Though the airliner vaporized itself on impact it only made a tiny 16 foot hole in the building. Amazing. Meanwhile, though the planes hitting the Twin Towers caused fires small enough for the firefighters to be heard on their radios saying "We just need 2 hoses and we can knock this fire down" attesting to the small size of it, somehow they must have used magical powers from beyond the grave to make this morph into a raging inferno capable of making the steel on all forty-seven main support columns (not to mention the over 100 smaller support columns) soften and buckle, then all fail at once. Hmmm. Then still more magic was used to make the building totally defy physics as well as common sense in having the uppermost floors pass through the remainder of the building as quickly, meaning as effortlessly, as falling through air, a feat that without magic could only be done with explosives. Then exactly 30 minutes later the North Tower collapses in precisely the same freefall physics-defying manner. Incredible. Not to mention the fact that both collapsed at a uniform rate too, not slowing down, which also defies physics because as the uppermost floors crash into and through each successive floor beneath them they would shed more and more energy each time, thus slowing itself down. Common sense tells you this is not possible without either the hijackers' magical powers or explosives. To emphasize their telekinetic prowess, later in the day they made a third building, WTC # 7, collapse also at freefall rate though no plane or any major debris hit it. Amazing guys these magical hijackers. But we know it had to be "Muslim hijackers" the conspiracy theorist will tell you because (now don't laugh) one of their passports was "found" a couple days later near Ground Zero, miraculously "surviving" the fire that we were told incinerated planes, passengers and black boxes, and also "survived" the collapse of the building it was in. When common sense tells you if that were true then they should start making buildings and airliners out of heavy paper and plastic so as to be "indestructable" like that magic passport. The hijackers even used their magical powers to bring at least seven of their number back to life, to appear at american embassies outraged at being blamed for 9/11!! BBC reported on that and it is still online. Nevertheless, they also used magical powers to make the american government look like it was covering something up in the aftermath of this, what with the hasty removal of the steel debris and having it driven to ports in trucks with GPS locators on them, to be shipped overseas to China and India to be melted down. When common sense again tells you that this is paradoxical in that if the steel was so unimportant that they didn't bother saving some for analysis but so important as to require GPS locators on the trucks with one driver losing his job because he stopped to get lunch. Hmmmm. Further making themselves look guilty, the Bush administration steadfastly refused for over a year to allow a commission to investigate 9/11 to even be formed, only agreeing to it on the conditions that they get to dictate its scope, meaning it was based on the false pretense of the "official story" being true with no other alternatives allowed to be considered, handpicked all its members making sure the ones picked had vested interests in the truth remaining buried, and with Bush and Cheney only "testifying" together, only for an hour, behind closed doors, with their attorneys present and with their "testimonies" not being recorded by tape or even written down in notes. Yes, this whole story smacks of the utmost idiocy and fantastic far-fetched lying, but it is amazingly enough what some people believe. Even now, five years later, the provably false fairy tale of the "nineteen hijackers" is heard repeated again and again, and is accepted without question by so many Americans. Which is itself a testament to the innate psychological cowardice of the American sheeple, i mean people, and their abject willingness to believe something, ANYTHING, no matter how ridiculous in order to avoid facing a scary uncomfortable truth. Time to wake up America.

At 3:45 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Carol was my cousin. I just wanted to thank you for remembering her.

At 11:18 AM, Anonymous Richard said...

Carol was my sister. Her family goes far beyond the man she was married to for less that two years. Any further discussion on this man, I choose to hold my tongue.
Carol was the primary care giver to our dad Frank, who had a number of health issues. I feel she kept him alive long after the doctors forecast, he passed away four months later. Carol left a loving mother and two brothers,two sister in laws, five neices and nephews, and two great nephews. Carol also left behind her aunts, uncles, and cousins, friends and coworkers. To know Carol was to love her!

At 7:27 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just before 9/11 I'd been to the ER at Kent Hospital. I have some health issues that bring me there a time or two each year. Carol was so nice, she left such an impression on me that my stomach dropped when I saw her photo in the news. Though i only knew her in passing, it was clear what a wonderful person she was. I've thought of her and her family many, many times the past 10 years. Please know your family is in my thoughts and prayers, Richard!!

Michelle from Warwick


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